Many children dream to become sports heroes like their idols. If your son’s ambition is to enter pro football when he gets older, the proper time to help him is now. Buy the proper football training equipment he will need.

But before rushing into coaching you’re your child, check your motives first. Make sure you are not trying to live out your failed dream of becoming a football star through your child. Avoid blurring the line between your roles as parent and coach because this will create problems on and off the playing field. Don’t dominate conversations about sports that other family members may feel left out and resentful.